Know that you live under a microscope! Your actions will speak much louder than your words.
Brush up on the facts- whether that means reading a puberty pamphlet or having a basic understanding of STDS and HIV, do your best to know the developmental and health facts related to human sexuality and growing up.
Tell the truth. If you don't know, don't bluff. You can send a powerful messages to a child by saying "I don't know" but be sure to follow up with "let's find out together!"
Use teachable moments! TV, friends, family-life in general-provides a lot of opportunities to share your thoughts, feelings, values and the facts about certain sexuality topics. Don't let those opportunities slip by. Silence counts as a powerful message.
Use correct names for body parts and physical processes.
When you're asked a question, keep your answer short, honest and simple. Then check to see if more information is desired. A "where did I come from" question can often times be answered with a simple response like "Detroit!"
Don't assume that if a kid is asking about sex they're doing it. They may have heard a new word or a story that made them curious. Ask questions to find out what's behind their questions and listen to their answers.
Let your kids know you're available and make it a habit to check in and share what your thinking about too!
Your words are only a part of communication! Your body language, tone and facial expressions play a big part in what you say.
Find, keep, maintain, develop a healthy sense of humor!